Question

Friendships can be difficult — because often people aren't as honest and open as they should be. Sometimes, people finally get hurt.

Most problems with friendships come up because people are just too selfish to care about the things that their friends need. They care about their own needs much more, which makes it hard for friendships to work. However, being selfish is part of human nature. A person is put together in order to take care of themselves and their own needs, not necessarily those needs of other people. Even though being selfish is something that all humans are born with, it is something that everyone should be against.

The best thing to remember when you are a friend to anyone is that you need to treat your friends the same way that you'd like to be treated(對待). This is wonderful advice for a friendship, because it is really the only way to make sure that you are giving your friends everything you would want to be given in a friendship. Whenever you have a question about how you should treat a friend, it is easy to find an answer simply by asking yourself what you would like your friend to do for you, if he or she was in your shoes.

Even if you're always thinking about how you'd like to be treated, and your friends are too, there are problems that come up from time to time in each friendship, and it is important to understand how to deal with these problems so that you can build stronger and healthier friendships. Problems like friends getting boyfriends or girlfriends and not spending enough time with their friends, or even friends finding new friends and leaving old friends behind are problems that will probably come up with one or more of your friendships. It is important to know how to deal with these friend problems so that you can keep your friends and make new ones. No one wants to have a broken friendship.

1.This passage mainly talks about ________.

A. the importance of friendship

B. the advantages(益處) of friendship

C. the problems of friendship

D. the disadvantages(劣勢) of friendship

2.According to the writer, problems with friendship may appear when ________.

A. one is honest                 B. one is selfish       C. one is open                   D. one is kind

3.According to the passage, the first and most important thing to be other people's friend is ________.

A. to treat your friend as you like to be

B. to give your friends whatever you have

C. not to hurt your friends' feelings

D. not to think of your own need any more

4.What's the purpose of understanding how to deal with friendship problems?

A. To have a comfortable life.

B. To build stronger and healthier friendships.

C. To be treated the way you want.

D. To get a boyfriend or girlfriend more quickly.

 

Answer 1

【答案】

 

1.C

2.B

3.A

4.B

【解析】

試題分析：友誼有時候是很難順利進行下去的，因為通常人們并不是很坦誠，人們有時會隱藏事實，因此人們最終也會受到傷害。其實這些大多數與友誼有關的問題，都是因為人太自私而不去關心別人的需求造成的，在本文中作者就此情況進行了分析并且給出了建議．

1.C主旨大意題．文章開頭提出Friendships can be difficult.然后在下文提出友誼難以維系的原因，和一些朋友間會出現的具體問題，以及如何去看待這些問題等，所以文章中心是討論友誼中所碰到的一些問題，而C選項內容恰好能概括中心，故選C．

2.B細節理解題．根據文章第二段Most problems with friendships come up because people are just too selfish to care about the things that their friends need.可知友誼出現問題的原因是由于人們太自私而不能關注到朋友們的需要，所以判斷B選項正確．

3.A細節理解題．由文章第三段The best thing to remember when you are a friend to anyone is that you need to treat your friends the same way that you'd like to be treated．可知一個人要按照自己希望被對待的方式去對待朋友，換句話說你希望別人怎么對待你，那么你就怎樣去對待別人，故A為正確選項．

4.B根據文章末段It is important to know how to deal with these friend problems so that you can keep your friends and make new ones可知了解如何處理朋友間的問題為的是能夠維持和別人的友誼，結成牢固的友誼．故B為正確選項．

考點：考查社會生活類短文閱讀。