Question

根據(jù)短文內(nèi)容，從下框的A—F選項中選出能概括每一段主題的最佳選項。選項中有一項為多余項(E涂AB,F涂AC)

A Avoid asking your child too many questions

B Tell your child stories about your growing up

C Don’t judge or criticize your child

D Listen to your kids with respect

E Provide pressure-free conversation opportunities

F Ask children gently what they think

   If your child has gone from a continuous chatterbox to making conversations that consist mostly of yes and no, it’s time to consider these tips on how to talk to kids, so you’ll know what’s going on in your child’s world.

1.  

The quickest way to get kids to shut up and, as a result, shut you out of their lives is to continuously press them about things. A more effective way is to sit back and patiently wait for them to open up in a low-stress family and then be prepared to listen.

2.  

Parents can sometimes make kids at a young age decide it is best not to talk about something when they are criticized. If you really want to know what’s on your child’s mind, then avoid passing judgment and focus instead on why something seems important to your child.

3.

If you want to raise a creative and independent thinker, stop telling your child what he ought to feel or think. You can gently encourage additional conversations by simply asking why he feels the way he does or what he would do in a certain situation.

4.  

You may think you’re just asking questions out of curiosity when communicating with your child, but an endless stream of questions about what they did, whether everyone got along, if they went to the bathroom, ect., are enough to make anyone shut up! Practice patience and let your kids open up on their terms.

5.

Kids can relate to you and other adults when you tell your stories happening when you were their age. Talking to kids by telling them about things like something embarrassing that happened or the first crush(迷戀) you had helps them to connect with you and understand that you might actually know what they are going through!

 

Answer 1

【答案】

1.E

2.C

3.F

4.A

5.B

【解析】

試題分析：本文講述的一些與孩子交流時的一些有效的建議，能夠讓我們和孩子更好的溝通。

1.E 根據(jù)本段最后一句A more effective way is to sit back and patiently wait for them to open up in a low-stress family and then be prepared to listen.可知是關(guān)于一個沒有壓力的談話的機(jī)會。

2.C 根據(jù)本段If you really want to know what’s on your child’s mind, then avoid passing judgment and focus instead on why something seems important to your child.

可知講述的是不要隨便下判斷或者批評孩子。

3.F 根據(jù)本段You can gently encourage additional conversations by simply asking why he feels the way he does or what he would do in a certain situation.說明詢問孩子的方式要溫柔，故F項符合段意。

4.A 根據(jù)本段1,2行You may think you’re just asking questions out of curiosity when communicating with your child, but an endless stream of questions about what they did,可知有時候我們的問題太多了，應(yīng)該避免問太多的問題，而是讓孩子自己說。故A正確。

5.B 根據(jù)第一句Kids can relate to you and other adults when you tell your stories happening when you were their age.可知是建議我們給孩子講述我們自己的年輕時的故事。

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