When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult, to let go of your anger. But forgiveness is possible - and it can be surprisingly helpful to your physical and mental health. In deed, research has shown that people who forgive report more energy, better appetite (胃口) and better sleep patterns. "People who forgive show less anger and more hopefulness," says Dr. Frederic Luskin, who wrote the book Forgive for Good. "So it can help save on the wear and tear on our system and allow people to feel more energetic. "
So when someone has hurt you, calm yourself first. Take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love. Don't wait for an apology. "Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing," says Dr. Luskin. "They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting a very long time. " Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean accepting the action of the person who upset you. Mentally going over your hurt gives power to the person who brought you pain. Instead, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you. Finally, try to see things from the other person’s perspective (視角). You may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance (無知) , fear - even love. To gain perspective, you may want to write a letter to yourself from that person's point of view.
65. The text is mainly written to explain __________.
A. how to keep yourself from being hurt C. how and when to remain calm
B. how to stay mentally healthy D. why and how to pardon others.
66. According to the writer, what is the right way to calm down after being hurt?
A. Try to figure out why you get hurt.
B. Write a letter to the person who hurt you.
C. Persuade yourself to accept what others have done to you.
D. Think _bout pleasant things and forget about the hurt.
67. Dr. Luskin advises us not to wait for an apology after being hurt because ____.
A. we are not patient enough
C. people seldom want to apologize
B. we'd feel worse accepting others' apology
D. people don't mean it when they apologize
科目：高中英語 來源：黑龍江省哈爾濱市2010屆高三一模英語試題 題型：完型填空
閱讀下面短文，從短文后各題所給的四個選項（A、B、C、D）中，選出空白處的最佳選項，并在答題卡上將該項涂黑。
During my second year of college, I was looking around for a place to live. One Sunday after church, the pastor(牧師) told me to stay in his daughter’s room because his daughter was studying abroad for one year.[來源:學*科*網Z*X*X*K]
To be 36 , I really didn’t want to stay with “the pastor’s family”. He told me how much the 37 would be---a very low figure that 38 one home-cooked meal a day. I thought about the 39 and decided to move in.
At the end of the term I had planned to find 40 living place, since the daughter was to 41 home. To my delight, they 42 that I share a room with their son. I seemed to have been adopted into their 43 ----their people became my people. I 44 accepted the offer.
As I emptied the daughter’s bedroom, I thought it might be 45 to have a little sister to look after. But when I later met my new sister, I 46 that she was more independent than I first 47 .
We finally fell in love, 48 , and have looked after each other for many years. There have been times that life turned out more 49 than either of us could have known. But we have always been able to go 50 largely because we knew that we are deeply 51 .
It isn’t about marriage… It’s about 52 . It’s about mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers and special friends who are as 53 as family. It’s about anybody who can say, “I’ll be 54 ----you can count on me. I’ll try to look after you and sometimes I will need you to look after me.[來源:Z§xx§k.Com]
Is there somebody you can depend on? And are others counting on you? We travel the path of life best when there is 55 to look after, and when someone is looking after us.
36. A. honest B. surprised C. friendly D. pleased
37. A. price B. rent C. money D. pay
38. A. had B. included C. made D. contained
39. A. idea B. plan C. service D. offer
40. A. same B. different C. another D. extra
41. A. return B. go C. get D. leave
42. A. ordered B. agreed C. arranged D. suggested
43. A. house B. family C. group D. friend
44. A. happily B. sorrowfully C. evidently D. efficiently
45. A. bad B. exciting C. nice D. strange
46. A. realized B. thought C. knew D. doubted
47. A. saw B. told C. imagined D. believed
48. A. separated B. parted C. left D. married
49. A. smooth B. challenging C. exciting D. different
50. A. backward B. eastward C. forward D. westward
51. A. hated B. cared C. felt D. liked
52. A. friendship B. relation C. love D. family
53. A. close B. good C. far D. long
54. A. away B. out C. in D. around
55. A. nobody B. somebody C. anybody D. everybody
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科目：高中英語 來源：湖南省長沙市業水平考試英語模擬試題（二） 題型：閱讀理解
第一節 回答問題（共3小題；每小題2分，滿分6分）
閱讀下面短文，根據第58至第60小題的具體要求，盡可能簡要回答問題，并將答案轉寫到答題卡上。
If you do not use your arm or your legs for some time, they become weak; when you start using them again, they slowly become strong again. Everybody knows that. Yet many people do not seem to know that memory works in the same way. When someone says that he has a good memory, he really means that he keeps his memory in practice by using it. When someone else says that his memory is poor, he really means that he does not give it enough chance to become strong. If a friend says that his arms and legs are weak, we know that it is his own fault. But if he tells us that he has a poor memory, many of us think that his parents are to blame, and few of us know that it is just his own fault. Have you ever found that some people can’t read or write but usually they have better memories? This is because they cannot read or write and they have to remember things; they cannot write down in a little notebook. They have to remember days, names, songs and stories; so their memory is the whole time being exercised. So if you want to have a good memory, learn from the people: Practice remembering.
58. What is the main reason for one is poor memory? (回答詞數不超過8個)
59. What will happen if you do not use your arms or legs for some time? (回答詞數不超過5個)
60. What is the best title for this passage? (回答詞數不超過6個)
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科目：高中英語 來源：廣東省2009-2010學年度高一上學期期末考試英語試卷 題型：閱讀理解
第四部分: 閱讀理解（共15小題，滿分30分）
閱讀下列三篇短文，從每題所給的四個選項(A、B、C和D)中，選出最佳選項，并在答題卡上將該項涂黑。
It is important for Americans to thank other people for favors even if what the other person did was very small. Both children and older people should be thanked for any kind act. The person accepting the thanks usually says something to make the favor seem small, or says that it was his pleasure to help you, or simply, “ You’re welcome.”
It is equally important to apologize when you have hurt or disappointed someone. When possible, you should always add a reasonable explanation or excuse for your behavior. When there is some loss or damage to personal property(財產), the person responsible(負責) for the loss should both apologize and offer to pay for the item.
Most of the time the other person accepts the apology graciously and doesn’t show any disappointment or anger. But if the problem was really serious or it happened several times before, the person might say something how he feels.
56. It is necessary to thank a person who is _____ for any kind act.
A. older than you B. younger than you
C. the same age as you D. all of the above
57. If you do any damage to someone’s property, you should _____.
say how sorry you feel and offer to pay for the item.
Just apologize for what you have done.
Say nothing and try to forget about it.
Pay for the damage without saying a word.
58. When you apologize for something, you should ____.
always remember to say it is not your fault.
try to explain the reason for your actions.
add an excuse even if it is not a good one.
none of the above
59.When someone apologizes to you, you should_____.
accept the apology kindly B. tell him how upset you are
take no notice of him. D. give an angry reply and leave him alone.
60.Choose the best title of this passage.
A. Don’t hurt others B. Thanking
C. Habit of Americans D. Thanking and Apologizing
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科目：高中英語 來源：廣東省2009--2010學年度高一下學期期中考試英語試卷 題型：語法填空
語法填空: (每小題1.5分, 共15分)
When someone says “Well, I guess I’ll face the music.”, he doesn’t mean that 31_______
is planning to go to a concert. It is something far less happy, as you are 32________(call) in by
your boss to explain why you did this or did that, or 33______you did not do this or that.
At some time34______ another, every one of us has to “face the music”, 35________
(especial) as children, we can all remember father’s angry words “I want to talk to you!” And it was only because we did not listen to him. 36_____ a bad thing it was!
In the middle or at the end of every term, some students have to “face the music”. The result of the exam will decide 37______ they will have to face the music or not. There might be parents’ blame and the contempt（輕視）of the teachers and other 38___________(classmate).
The phrase “to face the music” is well known to every American, 39_____ or old. It is at least 100 years old. It originally means that you have to do something 40_______ (brave), no matter how terrible the whole thing might be, because you know you have no choice.
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科目：高中英語 來源：2014屆廣東省高一模塊一考試英語題 題型：閱讀理解
“Mum, what does it mean when someone tells you that they have a skeleton (骨骼) in the closet (衣櫥)？”Jessica asked. “A skeleton in the closet?” her mother paused thoughtfully, “Well, it’s something that you would rather not have anyone else know about. For example, if in the past, someone in Dad’s family had been arrested for stealing a horse, it would be ‘a skeleton in his family’s closet’. He really wouldn’t want any neighbor to know about it.”
“Why pick on my family?” Jessica’s father said with anger. “Your family history isn’t so good, you know. Wasn’t you great – great grandfather a prisoner who was transported to Australia for his crimes?” “Yes, but people these days say that you are not a real Australian unless your ancestors arrived as prisoners.” “Gosh, sorry I asked. I think I understand now,” Jessica cut in before things grew worse.
After dinner, the house was very quiet. Jessica’s parents were still quite angry with each other. Her mother was ironing clothes and every now and then she glared at her husband, who hid behind his newspaper pretending to read. When she finished, she gathered the freshly pressed clothes in her arms and walked to Jessica’s closet. Just as she opened the door and reached in to hang a skirt, a bony arm stuck out from the dark depths and a bundle of white bones fell to the floor. Jessica’s mother sank into a faint (暈倒), waking only when Jessica put a cold, wet cloth on her forehead. She looked up to see the worried faces of her husband and daughter.
“What happened? Where am I?” she asked. “You just destroyed the school’s skeleton, Mum,” explained Jessica. “I brought it home to help me with my health project. I meant to tell you, but it seemed that as soon as I mentioned skeletons and closets, it caused a problem between you and Dad.” Jessica looked in amazement as her parents began to laugh madly. “They’re both crazy,” she thought.
1.According to Jessica’s mother, “a skeleton in the closet” means .
A．a family honor B．a family secret
C．a family story D．a family treasure
2.What can we learn about some Australian’s ancestors from Paragraph 2?______.
A．They were brought to Australia as prisoners.
B．They were the earliest people living in Australia.
C．They were involved in some crimes in Australia.
D．They were not regarded as criminals in their days.
3.Jessica’s mother fell down into a faint because she was .
A．knocked B．frightened C．injured D．surprised
4.Why did Jessica bring a skeleton home? _________.
A．She was curious about it. B．She planned to keep it for fun.
C．She needed it for her school task. D．She intended to scare her parents.
5.Jessica’s parents laughed madly at the end of the story probably because .
A．they were crazy
B．they were overexcited
C．they realized their misunderstanding
D．they both thought they had won the quarrel
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