When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be very difficult to let go of your anger. But forgiveness is possible - and it can be surprisingly helpful to your physical and mental health. Indeed, research has shown that people who forgive have more energy, better appetite (胃口) and better sleep. “People who forgive show less anger and more hopefulness,” says Dr. Frederic Luskin, who wrote the book Forgive for Good. “So it can help save on the wear and tear(消耗) on our body and make people feel more energetic.”
So when someone has hurt you, calm down first. Take plenty of breathe deeply and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love. Don’t wait for an apology(道歉). “Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing,” says Dr. Luskin. “They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don’t see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting a very long time.” Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean accepting the action of the person who makes you angry. Mentally going over your hurt gives power to the person who brought you pain. Instead, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you. Finally, try to see things from the other person’s perspective(視角). You may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance (無知), fear, even love. To achieve the perspective, you may write a letter to yourself from that person’s point of view.
1.When someone has deeply hurt you, it’s not easy for you to ________.
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A．feel very angry |
B．let go of your anger |
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C．keep remembering it |
D．let your anger appear |
2.What will you do first when someone has hurt you?
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A．Take much breathes deeply. |
B．See things in a different way. |
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C．Keep yourself calm. |
D．Go over your hurt. |
3.According to the writer, what is the right way to calm down after being hurt?
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A．Try to make sure why you get hurt. |
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B．Write a letter to the person who hurt you. |
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C．Tell yourself to accept what others have done to you. |
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D．Think about pleasant things and forget about the hurt. |
4.Dr. Luskin advises us not to wait for an apology after being hurt because ______.
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A．we are not patient enough |
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B．we’d feel worse accepting others’ apology |
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C．people seldom want to apologize |
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D．people don’ t mean it when they apologize |
5.This passage is mainly written to explain _______.
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A．how to keep yourself from being hurt |
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B．how to stay mentally healthy |
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C．how and when to stay calm |
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D．why and how to forgive others |
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| A．a loud sound | B．sad stories |
| C．a long movie | D．the words of a song |
| A．is not enjoyable | B．makes us tired |
| C．is bad for MP3 players | D．hurts our ears |
| A．the teacher won’t allow it |
| B．the actors will get angry |
| C．others won’t hear the play well |
| D．we will miss part of the play |
| A．show others the way |
| B．talk to friends on the phone |
| C．watch a sporting event |
| D．have dinner with our parents |
| A．schools | B．libraries | C．restaurants | D．museums |
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Now throwing shoes at somebody is a favorite game on the Internet. Sometimes you should throw your shoes. Here is an example.
After leaving his office at the center of city, a young man bought a new car and drove it from the city to his home.
He was very happy and the car ran very fast. Suddenly, a shoe hit the car in the door. The man got very angry. He jumped out of car and caught a boy who still had a shoe in his hand.
“Who are you? Why do you that?” the angry man shouted at the boy.
“I’m sorry… But I don’t know what else to do. My sister has been hurt. I cry for help but nobody stops,” the boy says.
The man looked around and saw a girl by the road. ___22____.
“She is my sister. She wants to cross the road but falls out of her wheelchair. She is too heavy for me. I can’t get her back into the wheelchair.” The man was moved. He helped the bleeding girl back into her wheelchair. “Thank you. You are so kind.” says the little boy.
Life speaks to our heart. Sometimes we don’t have time to listen and he will throw a shoe at us.
【小題1】The young man drove his new car _______.
| A．to the center of city | B．to his office |
| C．to his home | D．to the supermarket |
| A．She was dancing. | B．Her leg was bleeding . |
| C．She was running. | D．Her hands were dirty. |
| A．Because he wanted to help the young man | B．Because he needed help. |
| C．Because he was hurt | D．Because the car ran fast. |
| A．the young boy wanted to cross the road |
| B．the young man was moved |
| C．the young man saw a girl’s leg was bleeding into the wheel chair |
| D．the young man helped his sister back into the wheelchair |
| A．We should be kind and helpful. |
| B．We should drive slowly. |
| C．We shouldn’t get angry when someone throws shoes at our cars. |
| D．We shouldn’t throw shoes at the cars. |
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Albert was an ordinary worker in an oil company in America. His workmates gave a nickname（綽號）“Four dollars a bucket of oil” below his name whenever and wherever he wrote down his name.
As time went by, people forgot his real name. Later, when Rockefeller, the board chairman(董事長)of the oil company, heard of it, he was very surprised, so he invited Albert to come to his office.
“Some people give you a nickname for ‘Four dollars a bucket’. Why aren’t you angry?” asked Rockefeller with some puzzlement in his eyes.
“Oh! Mr. Rockefeller! I like this nickname very much, because ‘Four dollars a bucket’ is our company’s advertisement. As long as someone calls me‘ Four dollars a bucket’ once, I think it’s free advertisement for our company. It’s not necessary for me to get angry. Don’t you think so , Mr. Rockefeller?”
“Oh! What a wonderful man!” Rockefeller said excitedly when hearing Albert’s words “Young man! Work harder, you must be successful in the future! I believe in you!”
Five years later, Albert became the second board chairman after Rockefeller.
Later Albert said in one of his reports, “I don’t think we should feel frustrated when we have no way to do the world-shaking things. We should treat everything actively because maybe our future success will begin from a small thing!”
【小題1】What was Albert in The oil company at the beginning?
| A．A worker. | B．An assistant. | C．A manager. | D．The second board chairman. |
| A．He liked to have a nickname. | B．It could make his workmates happy. |
| C．He could become famous. | D．It was a free advertisement for his company. |
| A．Rockefeller asked young people to work harder. |
| B．It’s very important to do small things well. |
| C．You can’t get angry when someone calls your nickname. |
| D．You should make more advertisements for your company. |
| A．I Believe in You | B．Albert and Rockefeller |
| C．Four Dollars a Bucket | D．The Second Board Chairman |
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科目：初中英語 來源：2013-2014學年江西省撫州市九年級上學期期中考試英語試卷（解析版） 題型：閱讀理解
When you cough or sneeze(打噴嚏), please turn your head away from others and cover
your mouth with the full part of your hand. Afterwards, you should say, “Excuse
me.” This is a rule I set for my students. It is so simple, but many kids have
never been told to do this. In fact, I noticed adults cou
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and sneeze in public without putting a hand over the mouth. I hate traveling by
subway in New York during cold and flu season, because it is certain that
someone is going to stand right behind me and cough or sneeze on my neck.
One important thing I point out to the kids is that after they sneeze or cough on their hand, they should wash their hands as soon as possible. Otherwise, they will be passing those germs(細菌) along to everything and everyone they touch. In order to help the kids remember this rule, I tell them about an old story. It says that when you sneeze, evil spirits jump into your body. If you don’t cover your mouth, the spirits will enter, but if you cover your mouth, you will keep them out. We say “God bless you” when someone sneezes, and in Germany you should say “Gesundheit.” That means “Good health to you.” Both expressions are said—just in case you didn’t cover your mouth in time and the spirits were able to enter your body. The kids love finding out the origins(起源) of these expressions and it encourages them to put advice to use more often.
1.The writer of this article must be _________.
A. a reporter B. a teacher C. a doctor D. an officer
2.What does the underlined word “this” mean?
A. Don’t cough or sneeze in front of people.
B. Don’t stand beside someone who coughs or sneezes.
C. Many people cough or sneeze on the underground train.
D. Cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing and say sorry.
3.After coughing or sneezing on their hand, students are advised to _________.
A. say “God bless you” immediately
B. wash their hands as soon as possible
C. go to see a doctor as soon as possible
D. go home and have a good rest
4.According to the article, the writer would like the kids _________.
A. to be polite to adults B. to be in better health
C. to have good manners D. to do well in exams
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